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Chickenraptorbaby came home two weeks ago. So so far every minute of my days that I’m not tending to her endless amount of needs I am sleeping.

So far what we learned about her is shes a very smart baby who loves baby hair metal.

Chickenraptorbaby came home two weeks ago. So so far every minute of my days that I’m not tending to her endless amount of needs I am sleeping.

So far what we learned about her is shes a very smart baby who loves baby hair metal.

fundock:

Yo. For real. Rollins isn’t cool. I sat through a talk where he essentially said if a 16 year old sends a guy naked pictures she is going to end up raped and in garbage bags along the highway. He said when she tried to send him pictures that his response was “respect yourself more than that. If you don’t these awful things will happen” and he used rape and murder as examples of the awful things.

I wrote him and said rape isn’t a punishment women get doled onto them by men for not respecting themselves. I told him I sat in a room full of boys and listened to him take the active participation of men out of the equation for why rape happens. I told him he basically absolved all those men of responsibility for rape IF that woman had made a critical error like sending naked pictures. I explained that I was raped in my own bed, by someone I trusted, while I was asleep no less, and that it surely wasn’t because I have texted a picture of my breasts to someone in my lifetime. It was because the man in my bed decided to have sex with me, and didn’t feel it was important to ask me if I was interested in it…

I pointed out that my rapist is a huge fan of Henry.

My brother came home after that talk and threw every Rollins book and poster he had in the garbage. I put mine outside marked “free.”

When Henry responded, I thought it was a joke. His first word was “no.” He then told me that I was wrong, that I didn’t know what I was talking about. He hadn’t said anything incorrect and that I should check myself. He said that I was too angry. He told me to try being calm and polite if I wanted people to listen to what I had to say. He told me my letter was painfully long to read.

Rollins. MR ANGRY himself, told me to be less angry about being raped. He told me as a rape survivor and a woman that I didn’t know what I was talking about, but he did. The man who has talked AT ME and a crowd of people for 3 hours straight on 6 different occasions told me to say less.

We exchanged 12 emails. I got to RE READ my emails when he regurgitated them in his widely shared statement about stubenville, which he sent me personally, 3 months after he had sent me the last email in our exchange. Like “see, I stand up for rape victims.” But all he learned was the language to seem like he cared, and he learned it from me.

So yeah, when I see him on my dash yelling about how his frozen yoghurt isn’t frozen, so intensively that the veins in his throat stand out, I remember that he told me if I wanted to tell him to not blame victims I needed to be sweeter. I remember that he told me I was too angry.

(Source: misandryxvx, via unfrickable)

Whenever I disappear for an excessively long time it’s almost always for some health bs. This is chickenraptorbaby. She came super fucking early -about two weeks ago- when she wasn’t supposed to be here until July. My body decided to randomly develop something called preeclampsia so she had to come out immediately. Then I had to stay at the hospital for a week because my health is still wonky. I’m finally home but since chickenraptorbaby was so early shes still in the NICU for now and we go to visit her every day. So it’s been pretty hectic lately.

cannelledusoleil:

markdoesstuff:

anarcho-queer:

thinksquad:

Los Angeles police officers tampered with voice recording equipment in dozens of patrol cars in an effort to avoid being monitored while on duty
An inspection by Los Angeles Police Department investigators found about half of the estimated 80 cars in one South L.A. patrol division were missing antennas, which help capture what officers say in the field. The antennas in at least 10 more cars in nearby divisions had also been removed.
http://articles.latimes.com/2014/apr/07/local/la-me-lapd-tamper-20140408

“LAPD Chief Charlie Beck and other top officials learned of the problem last summer but chose not to investigate which officers were responsible.”

who is surprised


Because cops are assholes who think the rules don’t apply to them.

cannelledusoleil:

markdoesstuff:

anarcho-queer:

thinksquad:

Los Angeles police officers tampered with voice recording equipment in dozens of patrol cars in an effort to avoid being monitored while on duty

An inspection by Los Angeles Police Department investigators found about half of the estimated 80 cars in one South L.A. patrol division were missing antennas, which help capture what officers say in the field. The antennas in at least 10 more cars in nearby divisions had also been removed.

http://articles.latimes.com/2014/apr/07/local/la-me-lapd-tamper-20140408

LAPD Chief Charlie Beck and other top officials learned of the problem last summer but chose not to investigate which officers were responsible.

who is surprised

Because cops are assholes who think the rules don’t apply to them.

(Source: thinksquad)

Does giving up a baby for adoption erase all the extra personal expenses shelled out over the course of a pregnancy? Does it magically restore any pay or chance at advancement that you might have lost? Does the act of adoption fully return your body to its pre-pregnancy, uninjured state, such that you don’t need time off work to recover afterward? Does it decrease the cost of taking care of pregnancy-induced diabetes or other pregnancy-related conditions that don’t heal up right away? I don’t think so.

Reproductive Choice Is About More Than Getting ‘Fat’—It’s About Bodily and Economic Autonomy (via brutereason)

(via thelizakate)

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